Case for the Twin Beds and Chatting on the Internet

Humh. I am still having training this week. But, I did get a laptop. Not a fancy new one, but one I can use at home and work. That being said, you can thank the new employer for saving you from a Tuesday re-post.

Remember in all the old shows, married couples used to sleep in seperate beds? And I always thought television programmers were trying to keep it clean. But as I’ve gotten older, had the pleasure of sharing a bed with a couple men, I think those broads on TV, or back in the day, had something with the twin beds.

I wonder if things in the bedrooms of yesteryear weren’t as they were shown on TV. Was the Mrs. and the Mr. seperated by a lovely table in real life? And if they were, who decided that sleeping in the same bed was the right change to make?

I’m sure they got it on in one of those twin beds. We all know it’s possible because we all went to college. But the beauty of the married twin bed situation is after it’s done, you get a bed to yourself. Cuddling is good. Snoring is bad. The warmth of another body is good. Sleeping with someone who thrashes about unexpectedly is bad. And I’m telling you, putting a nightstand between you and a snorer is always a good thing.

Ah yes, the days of old. Girls were girls and men were men…Beds were twin. And I’m not saying that bed sharing is bad. I’m just saying that occasionally, a b*tch wants to sleep. Is that so bad??

As an aside, this has nothing to do with beds, but is exchanging e-mails with a person interested in having a relationship (sexual, intimate, non-platonic) cheating?? I’m of the mindset that the person in the relationship must control the interaction. Further, that person would frequently let the other person know the deal.

And at what point, once a new relationship is established, do all old flings, bed-buddies, and the like need to be told the deal?? Is it possible to just not tell them at all? Do the fade? Fade them right out of your life. And if this is the route you take, is it a case where you’re not telling the fling, etc. the truth because you want to put them on ice just in case your main squeeze doesn’t work out?

Can y’all tell I was jonesin’ for blogging yesterday?? We got a lot of breaks and an hour plus for lunch. Where was I?? Trying to catch up on my blog reading. But for real, answer the questions I posed. I’d really like to hear your opinions. Remember: Twin beds, internet chatting, and announcing the relationship.