Crazier, Sexier, Cooler?

Do y’all believe pretty women are crazy? Think about it. I’ve been hearing this for so long. There’s an expectation out there that if a woman is pretty, fine, desirable in any way, it should be automatically assumed she’s crazy. This might even be true. And yeah, I’m saying this as a woman who is easy on the eyes. I speak from a place of knowing. I’m not saying it’s cool to be crazy. But I definately understand how a prettier woman can get trained to be crazy. Taking into account that all women have crazy in them but the assumption is that prettier women have a higher rate of letting crazy ideas move from being quick thoughts to well orchestrated events.

Most attractive women have been that way throughout their lives. As a result, they’ve had access to a greater number of boys/men for a lot longer than their not-as-cute counterparts. And we all know, people do foul things in relationships. Therefore, these pretty women (PW) are more likely to get screwed over. More dates equal more drama. When you’re young, you don’t always know how to react to hurt feelings, being wronged, etc. Too often, she lashes out. The thing is, even if she lashes out, she still gets dates. There’s no penalty for showing her ass. As a result, she doesn’t learn to deal with hurt feelings any other way because she doesn’t have to. Nor is she particularly concerned about being able to keep this one guy or get others.

This is even the case with grown ass men. They let certain women get away with crazy. I recall writing about something and my boy, who I know in real-real life, admitted that a pretty chick can get away with WAY more than an average or ugly chick. Hell, even in court, attractive people get away with way more (see, OJ). Not only this, but if an attractive woman does some crazy shyt, men aren’t shocked because they expect it.

The messed up thing is that women know this. Women know there’s a certain acceptable level of crazy we can safely get away with. And sometimes, crazy is fun. There I said it. Sometimes crazy is pretty damn liberating. Sometimes you just get tired of thinking things through. Sometimes, you gotta have a blade in your mouth. Sometimes, a MF needs to remember that he should be afraid, very afraid.

Truth is, I don’t think attractive women are any more crazy than any other women. What I do believe is that ALL women are capable of crazy. People just notice more on attractive women because, well they are attractive. Just like you’re more llikely to notice an attractive woman when she walks in the room. Does she have a super special swagger? No. But she’s pleasing to the eye and more likely to get attention for doing nothing out of the ordinary.